Our funeral home has been proud to serve our communities for over 100 years. We are currently and closely monitoring and adhering to the health guidelines set forth by the CDC, NC Department of Health and Human Services and Governor Roy Cooper. During the Covid-19 pandemic our funeral home will remain open and our staff will continue to assist families during this difficult time.

If you are ill and cannot come to our facility to make arrangements for a loved one, or share your condolence with a family please feel free to reach out to us.

In this climate of uncertainty, we want you to know we are doing our best to keep the safety of our families, staff and general public a top priority. Should you have any questions about anything please feel free to contact us at 919-894-3131, 910-897-7426 or 919-963-3117.

The Staff of Rose & Graham Funeral Home
Benson, Coats and Four Oaks, NC.


Preplanning Checklist
Dealing with the loss of a loved one can be overwhelming to your surviving family and friends, but pre-planning your funeral service can help them better deal with the stress of losing someone.
Choose the Type of Service You Want
Pre-planning your funeral service can not only ease the burden on your loved ones, but it helps ensure your final wishes are honored. While some families struggle with making those final decisions after losing someone, your family won’t have to worry with making those hard choices.
  • Choose what funeral home and director you would like to use to handle your service.
  • Decide what type of service you want (traditional, cremation, donation, etc…).
  • If you choose a traditional service with burial, decide where you want to be buried.
  • Meet with the funeral director and look at your options for caskets and urns.
  • If you decide you want to be buried, choose clothing options.
  • Look at options for a location to hold your service (funeral home, religious facility, sentimental building, graveside).
  • What type of flowers do you want? Do you want flowers, or would you rather donations be given to a particular charity or a charity of one’s choice?
  • Who will be a part of your service? You should decide on pallbearers and even ask them personally. You should also decide who you would like to officiate or participate in your service.
  • Choose which songs you would like played at your service.
  • Write an obituary or make notes about information you would like to be included in your obituary.
Choose Who You Want to be in Charge
Your family and friends want to take part in the process of fulfilling your final wishes, they only need instructions on what they need to do.
  • Make sure someone, preferably your executor, has a copy of the will.
  • Give a family member or chosen friend a list of important account information that will need to be contacted and handled following your death. Also make sure someone knows your final wishes for your desired service.
  • Designate someone to be your power of attorney.
  • Have someone prepared to cancel basic utility services and subscriptions.
Choose To Pay In Advance
Making decisions about your funeral service in advance can benefit you and your survivors financially. If possible, pay for all expenses in advance, freeing your family from that financial burden. When possible, pre pay for:
  • Cemetery services, burial plot
  • All funeral arrangements including casket, urn, flowers, transportation and specialized services